Today, I have heard this from my Nani telling my mother. We are in total 4 sisters and from our childhood every (mostly our relatives) used to look at us very poorly. But don't think they used to help us. No, not at all. They just used us to take benefits from us. They used to make fun of us all the time. By listening and handling all these my mother used to cry a lot. And specially because of my father, he doesn't care about all these. All relatives don't want to continue the relationship with us. As they think of us a burden in long term.
We are daughter's not sons. As, our traditional rituals daughter's families used to give money/gifts to son's families at the time of marriage. That tradition is now become a kind of business now a days.
In my childhood, I hated to be a girl. Why I am a girl not a son. If I would be a boy no one will feels like I am a burden. Continuously, I used to do effort to do all the things which a boy can do. Just to make my relatives feel like I am good enough too.
But some later point of time I do recognize that, being a son is not about appearance or work or anything related to else. It is related to all about money. Son used to earn family and took care of his family lifetime. That's why son's values are more than girls.
That day, I decided I would earn a lot of money for my mummy and I am continuously doing my effort in that direction, and I will do till my last breath.